How to Write a Letter of Recommendation
Or: "Why Doesn't Anyone I Know Ever Get an Award?"
By Dorinda Courtenay


One of the greatest joys of the Crown is the opportunity to give awards to the deserving populace, but it is not always easy to determine who is deserving in any given reign. No two people can know everyone in a Kingdom, and this is why the Royalty needs the help of the people to advise them on the good work of their subjects. The best way to do this is via a letter of recommendation.

Who Should Write?

There are often misconceptions that only Peers can write letters of recommendation, or that a person should not write a recommendation for an award that they do not have. Neither of these is true. While it may be true that those with higher level awards may have special insight into the criteria and requirements for an award, the knowledge and insight of even the newest member of the Society is welcomed by the Royalty. Anyone who feels strongly that they know someone who is worthy of recognition should write. And write often!

When Should We Write?

The sooner the better! One of the biggest mistakes that people make is to write (or worse yet telephone) the Royalty the week before their local event and try to get awards for local folks. This is a disservice to everyone involved. The Royalty does not have proper time to determine if They wish to give the award. If They make a rush decision to give the award, the poor scribe has only days to get a scroll prepared. There may not be time to get a medallion or other items ready. If the Royalty decide to give the award at a later event, those people close to the recipient may not be present to see the award. If the Royalty decide not to give the award at all, then the person who recommended the potential recipient will be angry, and the potential recipient may not get the recognition they deserve.

A good letter of recommendation for AOAs and Orders of Merit (the Sycamore, Keystone and Golden Alce) will be delivered to the Royalty no later than eight weeks before the date of the event where the award is to be given. Six weeks is sometimes acceptable. Letters of recommendation for Peerages and orders of High Merit (the Nightingale, Millrind, White Scarf, Gage, Scarlet Guard and the Caltrop) should be delivered almost as soon as the Heirs are victorious in Crown Tourney. This is necessary because the Royalty need to consult these Orders before making a final decision to give an award. This may require several weeks as they wait for the Orders to meet and discuss the candidate that was recommended.

To Whom Should We Write?

When in doubt, write to everyone! Early in a reign, letters may be sent to King and Queen. After Crown Tournament, the Heirs should also receive a copy of all letters. At some point and time in a reign, the King and Queen may request that all further letters be sent to Their Heirs. In addition to the Royalty, it does not hurt to send a copy of the recommendation for a Peerage or Order of High Merit to the Principal and the Clerk of the applicable Order. This way, the Order can get a head start on discussing the candidate.

How do I write a letter and how should it be delivered?

Recommendations should not be verbal! Some Royalty welcome recommendations via e-mail, but you should make sure that individual couples have agreed to this. Some Royalty is not comfortable with e-mail, and may not be able to keep track of your letter. Others may prefer it. A regular old paper letter, sent by the US postal service, is the most reliable method. Many people try to hand a letter to Royalty at an event, but this is risky. How many other things will they need to deal with at the event? Mail it to Their house!

What Should the Letter Include?

To be complete, a letter of recommendation should contain the following information:

There are sample letters attached that might be useful. One other tip is to include different recommendations for different people on separate pages. If the Royalty keep different folders for different awards, They might have trouble sorting your letter if there are too many people on each page.

Why Was the Award Not Given?

Sometimes, despite all your best efforts, a person will not receive the award you recommended. Why is that? There can be several reasons.

  1. Some Royalty requires that more than one letter is received. It can not hurt to encourage your friends to join in a letter writing campaign to get someone an award. Individual letters are better than petitions, but a petition is better than no letter.
  2. Your letter may have arrived too late for Their reign or not at all. (Although the Postal Service does not loose nearly as much mail as it gets blamed for losing!)
  3. Your friend may just not be ready for the award yet. This is a tough one to accept, because we see all the work that our loved ones have done and we want them recognized. However, there are many criteria for receiving an award and they must all be met.


Don't give up! Without your input, the Royalty will be unable to recognize those individuals who have given of themselves for the good of the Society. They will look forward to hearing from you.

Sample Letters

Poor Example

     To Morguhn and Meirwen, King and Queen of AEthelmearc,

          I  would  like  to  recommend  my  brother  Charles  Norris for a
     fighting award.  He is an excellent fighter and should be recognized.

     Thank you,



Better Example

     To  Morguhn  and  Meirwen,  King  and Queen of AEthelmearc, Cygnus and
     Dorinda, Heir and Heiress and Sir James Ahearn, Principal of the Order
     of  the Gage, does Lady Mary of London, Earl Marshal for your Shire of
     Endless Valleys send fond greetings.

          I   would   like  to  recommend  my  brother,  Lord  Charles  the
     Bloodthirsty  (m.k.a.  Charles Norris) for induction into the Order of
     the  Gage.   Charles  has been an active heavy weapons fighter for the
     last  six  years,  and  his skills have increased significantly during
     that  time.   He  is  currently squired to Sir Robin of the Hood.   He
     recently  made  it the quarterfinals of your Crown Tourney, and he won
     two  local  tournaments  - one here in Endless Valleys and one in your
     Barony  of Ashland - this past month.  I feel his fighting skill is on
     par  with those who have been previously inducted into the Gage, and I
     ask that you consider him.

          Charles  is  also  our local Minister of Arts and Sciences, and a
     fine  brewer  and woodworker.  He is active in our local group, and he
     never fails to work at a local event.  Last, but definitely not least,
     he  is  courteous  and  kind,  and  he  brings  honor to everything he

          Charles  will  almost  certainly be attending all of the upcoming
     War  Practices,  the  Turnip  event  in Endless Valleys and the annual
     Anvil Festival in the Canton of Worpshire.

          If  you  are  in need of any additional info, please feel free to
     contact me at:

     Mary of London
     c/o Mary Smith
     123 East 1st Street
     Metropolis, NY 11111
     (176) 555-5555

                                         Yours in service,